Do you like the idea of a relationship more than the actual relationship?

So Valentine's day has come and gone. You may be thinking, 'Olivia Valentine's day was a very long time ago?' True, however I wrote the first paragraph of this 7 months ago and have only just decided to finish lol. But every year Valentine's day comes along. And just as Christmas seems to make people …

White is beautiful and good and black is ugly and bad (results from the doll experiment).

There was a time when I didn't understand the beauty of being black, nor what being black truly meant (what comes along with that melanin skin). I didn't get it! I look back now and I struggle to believe that I didn't see the jaw dropping beauty and strength in those African features and in …

The second best reason to walk away is unsurity. The best reason to walk away is confirmation.

The past week has been interesting. I've been catching up with quite a few of my female friends, which means relationship talk, but I'm not mad, it gives me more to think and write about. From talking to these wonderful women the topic of why and when to walk away has been weighing upon my …

Your ex is a former thing. Jesus says ‘forget the former things’…

So let's use the names Angela and Martin. This is based on a true story (I have a source lol). Angela and Martin break up in January for perfectly clear reasons. However six months later, Angela sees Martin at an event. This is not the first time, post-relationship, that Angela and Martin have seen each …